Shop Around

I'm sure that many of you are familiar with the song "Shop Around", most recently redone my David Archileta. Not that this song inspired the following, I just realized that it coinsides. As I was driving today I realized something about one of my least favorite subjects to openly speak about in college-marriage. For those not familiar with Utah standards of marriage, getting married can happen very fast. Some people only know each other a couple months or even a couple weeks to days when they decide to get married. Shouldn't people actually get to know eachother first? I feel that marriage should be like shopping. When you are in the store and find something that you like you don't immediatly go to the check-out line. Instead you pick it up and walk with it around the store for a bit. Then once you are done with all of your shopping you decide if you still like it and whether or not you are really willing to take it home. If you are then you make the purchase! You'd hate to get home with it and realize that you shouldn't have made the impulse buy. Somethings are not returnable, and if they are there is no quarentee for a full refund.